LETTER TO MY ANCESTORS
After spending a frustrating evening pouring over illegible
handwriting in
badly damaged and out of focus parish registers - and still NOT
finding my
relatives, I thought it was time to send an open email (at
www.ofcoursethereisaHeaven.com) to all my "Upstairs"
relatives who have
gone to Heaven (99% of them) or the Other Place (1%). The text
follows.
(Feel free to insert your own relative's names where
appropriate.)
"Dear __________________:
I am your _____________ and living in the early 21st century here
in___________, ______. I am sitting in front of a microfilm
projector (I'll
explain what that is in a later email) in a special library run
by the LDS
(nice people, but later on them, too) trying to decipher the
small and
shaky handwriting of your parish's minister/vicar/curate (choose
one). He
must have been either vertically challenged or had palsy -
because it's
unreadable! At least I think it's your parish! I'm not even sure
of the
decade.
Thanks for leaving such a good paper trail! (Sarcasm intended.)
According
to family legend, you and your wife ___________ had _____
children, some of
whom lived beyond infancy. Yet not a single one was recorded in
the parish
records! I can't even find your marriage certificate. You two
WERE
married, right? Didn't you know that there would be legions of
people like
me
fanatically spending their waking hours and small fortunes
looking for any
and all traces of your lives? Were you just stubborn, couldn't
afford the
fees, or not members of the Established (or any) Church?
You're wondering, "What's all the fuss, we're dead as
doornails?" We're
not sure, but I think down here we're infected with the same
disease:
Rootsus obsessionus. Of course, WE are going to leave better
records for our
descendants!
Anyway, I'm glad I was able to vent my frustrations upward. If I
couldn't
do that, I'd have probably popped the obnoxious researcher next
to me who
is right now translating an old parish record in German - and out
loud, for
Pete's sake!
I have an idea.... When I'm "dead-on" (pardon the
expression) to finding
the correct record, give me some sort of sign. Make the projector
bulb
flicker twice. Or, if it must be done in the privacy of my home,
I have a
Labrador Retriever. Talk through her. That will get my attention
for sure.
Thanks for listening. I'll be better in the morning..... I'll be
back at
the library tomorrow night for Round 14, so catch me there.
Sincerely,
Your ________________,